Today marks the culmination of my 12th year as a quadriplegic. On an occasion like this, it would be great to offer some profound words of enlightenment, but there’s nothing to say that hasn’t been said at some point in the past. Perhaps just a reminder that living with paralysis is a continuous education.
The other day I found myself outside on my patio, basking in the warmth of the sun (something I have come to appreciate more than I ever thought possible). Listening to the radio as the sun warmed my face, I was aware of how fortunate I was to have this moment. No sooner had that appreciation been realized than a gust of wind seemingly came out of nowhere. The breeze, while a comfortable respite amidst the sun’s radiance, knocked over my tomato plant with no regard for my situation.
In that beautiful moment, I was reminded of how helpless I was. I watched as the soil spilled from the pot across the concrete. There was nothing I could do to remedy the situation. After a few moments of gazing upon my fallen shrub, I repositioned my wheelchair into the sunlight, closed my eyes, and resumed my appreciation of the sun’s warmth.
Moments like that encapsulate what these past 12 years have been like. At times, beautiful and wonderful, precious moments that instill gratitude and appreciation. And then without warning, there are moments of helplessness and despair, instances that deliver an instant buzzkill. It’s an unpredictable pendulum that I am constantly learning to navigate.
We all deal with these pendulum swings throughout our lives. The important thing is that we continue to learn from every swing. I continue to learn every day. I learn what my limits are; I learn what my body’s idiosyncrasies mean; I learn how hard good help is to come by, and how appreciative I am for the fantastic help I do have.
After 12 years of living with paralysis, I’m still not comfortable with it, but I continue to learn how to live with it.
After 12 years of living with paralysis, I’m still grateful that I get to wake up every day – even when I have to deal with pendulum swings. It’s a lot better than the alternative.
After 12 years of living with paralysis, I’m still humbled by the sacrifices my family makes, the support my friends offer, and the opportunities God bestows upon me.
And after 12 years of living with paralysis, I’m still excited to celebrate Independence Day.
Wishing everyone a healthy and safe Fourth of July! Forever grateful for the continued support!
Stand Strong!
Scott
Continued good health, Scott. Being Ryan Housholder’s Mom, I know only too well the struggles you live with daily. And like Ryan, you always see each day as a blessing, not a curse. I know he is smiling down upon you and is keeping watch over you. Blessings to you always.
Continued good health, Scott. Being Ryan Housholder’s Mom, I know only too well the struggles you live with daily. But like Ryan, you always see each day as a blessing, not a curse. I know he is smiling down upon you and is keeping watch over you. Blessings to you always.
You are an inspiration. You have not taken a ‘curse the world and die attitude’ but you have continued to look for all the good you can squeeze out of a very tragic situation. I hope God continues to bless you and I pray for a cure or healing.
Continue to show us what ‘StandStrong’ looks like.
Dear Scott
I feel ashamed of myself.
I know i’m 80 and have bad arthritis. But when I read your Blog I’m feeling different about the pain I indure .
I’m going to count the many blessings in my life and say a prayer for you.
Stay Strong You help all of us with your words and make us realize what we have to be thankful for.
Carol
I think of you often Scott, this 4th of July brings what if’s and with me as well. In an instant our lives and our family lives changed forever. Simple pleasures are not over looked with us. I’ve come to appreciate things that I might’ve overlooked. Thank you for your insightful blog.
Thanks for your thoughts that small joys and small sorrows are part of life. But, always let the joys overcome the sorrows. Your life is testament to this. Happy 4th!
Happy Fourth of July, Scott! Peace be with you, friend.
God bless you my friend. You have been 12 years of inspiration to so many including me.
Happy 4th, Scott. We miss you!
Happy 4th of July, Scott !
Hugs and Blessings from Florida. We continue to keep you and your beautiful family in our prayers. We are so blessed through Calphalon and St. Rose and Perrysburg to know you. Thank you for always reminding us of the Beauty of life and God’s Love.
Pat and Mike Brown (mostly Pat as you know!)
Very inspiring Scott. Your words make me reflect on my own life and how I can be more grateful. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
Love reading your thoughts and insights! You are inspiring with your optimistic outlook. Are your thinking about another book: like a collection of your reflections? Much love 🇺🇸❤️
Scott:
I am still amazed by you. I mention you in almost every class I have. I tell my students your story and perseverance. Keep it up, you are an amazing person
Kris
Scott, You help us to realize our blessings. And not worry about the small stuff
Every day and every personal or social encounter is a gift.
Love you.
Twelve years a quad, but over 40 years of an intelligent, strong and energetic man. We are gifted by Almighty God and your incredible will in having you in our presence. Thank you for saying yes to life, Scott. You mean more to us than you will ever know. May God send extra blessings of excellent health and happiness to you and your family on this glorious day. Celebrate and enjoy the freedom today we all share, especially post-pandemic. Happy Fourth of July!
Scott, You help us to realize our blessings. And not worry about the small stuff
Every day and every personal or social encounter is a gift.
Love you.
Scott—very insightful and thought-provoking. Thanks for sharing. Happy 4th.
I always tear up when I read your posts because in those moments I immediately realize how much I take for granted in my own life. In a few sentences you cause me to reflect and appreciate all God has blessed me with. One of my blessings is in knowing you Scott, even from a distance. Love to you and your dear family – always, but especially on the 12th anniversary of your accident.
Love your quick, to the point posts filled with perspective and wisdom. Have a great holiday weekend.
Thinking of you today Scott. You are one tough, strong hombre.
Love you Scott! ❤️🇺🇸