“SURPRISE!”
About three weeks ago we had decided to throw a surprise birthday party for my mother who would be turning 65 on April 3rd. We settled on this past Saturday as the date for the shindig, a few days after her actual birthday. Thus, it seemed like something she would not be expecting. As it turned out, she ended up heading to Philadelphia to visit with her mother last week, which gave her the chance to spend her actual birthday with some family that she doesn’t get to see too often. She got back into town late in the week and all she kept talking about was how much she was looking forward to staying home over the weekend so she could catch up on everything she had to do. Fat chance!
Saturday rolled around, and it took some convincing, but after quite a bit of effort, I was able to persuade my mother to let Lindsey, dad and I take her out to dinner for a small, belated celebration. Rather than throw a surprise party in a cramped restaurant, I rented the clubhouse of my apartment complex. The place was very spacious, equipped with couches, fireplace and a TV to ensure Final Four basketball viewing. Plus, everyone would be able to socialize and be as loud as we wanted to without having to worry about bothering other patrons. If you’ve never been to a Fedor party, they can get quite boisterous and sometimes unpredictable, another reason that a private room seemed like a good idea.
Lindsey swung by the house to pick mom up and on the way over to my place, told her that she needed to stop off at the apartment’s main office to sign something for me. I guess she kept asking Lindsey why my dad couldn’t sign for me! Needless to say, they pulled up to the clubhouse and my mom got out and walked in to a room of her closest friends all gathered together to celebrate with her. Any doubts that we might’ve had on whether or not she knew about the party in advance were certainly answered.
Upon seeing everyone yelling, “Surprise,” she froze in her tracks. She then immediately started to cry, and not just a few tears, but a deluge of tears fell from her eyes and she flashed one of the most sincere and appreciative smiles I’ve ever seen in my life! It truly warmed my heart and the hearts of several others, and she turned out to not be the only one crying. I couldn’t think of anyone more deserving of a party in their honor. I am extremely grateful for everyone who was able to share this special evening with her! Then it was time to party…
Sunday’s weather of sun and 71° was the perfect way to cap off a fun weekend. It didn’t take much time for me to quickly turn my face sun-kissed red. I should’ve known better, but I finally broke down and checked the weeklong weather forecast. Currently, they’re calling for rain all week long until Saturday, when it will finally be sunny again… and 41°. I’ll worry about that on Saturday, as am hoping to take in several films this week downtown at the film festival.
As always, thank you for all of your continued prayers and support! And thank you to everyone for your help in making Saturday evening a beautiful memory for my beautiful mother!
Stand Strong!
Scott
The first picture below was of my mom’s reaction upon seeing everyone. The second picture is a group shot of some of the relatives.
What a thoughtful thing for you to do! I’m sure your mother will never forget this gift.
Hi Scott! What a nice surprise for your mom. She has always had a heart of Gold. It did my heart good to know you and yours did this for your mom. She has always been special to those who know her. It has been along time for me and her as far as togetherness. She played a important person in my life in my teenage years. Not only did I babysit for you, she and I sometimes did things. We had nice talks. It was like having a big sister. Time changes things in life, yet you still hold memories and love for those who came before. Happy Belated Bithday Roberta!!!! You have always been a wonderful wife, mother and friend to those who know you. Sincerely, Karen Herman….
A very sweet thing to do, and what a great looking family, Scott!
Aw, I love when surprise parties work out, happy birthday to an extremely cool lady.
Happy Birthday to Bobbi. It’s so much easier to remember when we were fresh faced coeds at Temple University a zillion years ago. My congratulations are conditional……provided you don’t rub it in that I am older–mot much, but still older,
So glad you were able to surprise your Mom!
Unless I missed it, could you post a picture of you and your monkey.
Priceless!
Happy Birthday, Mrs. Fedor!
Happy birthday Mama Fedor!! What a great “surprise” picture of a wonderful, deserving birthday girl!! 🙂
She is blessed to have such great kids….
Well done !!
How wonderful that you had such a grand birthday party for your Mom and that you really surprised her. Was a good day for all I think
Enjoy the warm weather while it lasts.
God bless
It was a fun time with your family and friends! Your mom was completely caught off guard but loved it.
What a wonderful blessing for your Mom. Happy Belated Birthday, Bobbi!!!
You, like I, are truly blessed to have such a wonderful mother. God is so GOOD!
God Bless You – Mary
p.s. i cried when i read about your reaction to the surprise. I’m glad you got to see LOVE in action! you deserve it!
Happy Birthday Bobbi! There are many lives that have been blessed because you were born…mine included! <3 lots of love to you!
This is so sweet! Thanks for sharing!
All the best to your mom….she’s an amazing lady!
Awesome Surprise –
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOM FEDOR !
frm the DARCH’s